Live In-Person Events
Raleigh - Durham - Chapel Hill
in the North Carolina Triangle
Featuring Live Presentations, Instructor Role Plays,
and Private Couple Break-Outs
Created by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
Presented by Master Gottman Therapist, Lisa Lund, MFT
This comprehensive, science-based couple and marriage workshop & retreat is appropriate for premarital, engaged, married, cohabiting, gay, straight, happy or struggling couples. All of the ideas presented to you will be grounded in sound and extensive research brought to you from the Gottman Relationship Institute. You will learn what actually works in relationships that are happy and stable.
~ No public discussion or disclosure is involved. All work is done as a couple. ~
The Art & SCIENCE of Love workshop was designed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman. It is based on Dr. John Gottman’s leading edge research involving over 3,000 couples spanning the past three decades. Gottman is the author of 190 published academic articles, and best selling author or co-author of over 40 books including “The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work”, “What Makes Love Last”, “The Relationship Cure”, “Why Marriages Succeed or Fail”, and the newest book, "Fight Right”.
Your presenter is Lisa Lund, MFT, a Master Certified Gottman Therapist, lecturer & trainer, and workshop leader directly trained by Drs. John and Julie Gottman. Lisa is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 25 years of counseling experience treating couples.
The Art and Science of Love Workshop is designed to strengthen your relationship through engaging presentations and skill building exercises that are grounded in research. Lisa will share many humorous stories, film clips and role plays. During the first day, you will learn how to build and maintain fondness, admiration, and closeness in your relationship or marriage. On the second day, you will work on conflict management while learning new and important communication skills. All of the exercises are designed to address your real-life challenges and you will work only with your partner. During the exercises, the presenters remain available to consult with those couples who desire help. There is no group work or public disclosure. This is an experiential, psycho-educational workshop for couples, and is not therapy. The workshop is a terrific weekend couple getaway. At the end of the workshop you will leave with a greater understanding of your relationship and the skills to repair or enhance it.
Research shows that on average, couples wait six years from the first signs of problems before they seek help. The workshop is designed to strengthen your marriage and/or relationship. If you have a strong relationship, this workshop will provide you with insights and tools to make it a great one. If your relationship is distressed, this workshop will provide a road map for repair. If you are dealing with domestic violence, serious drug or alcohol addiction, or serious mental health problems this workshop may not be appropriate for you. In these cases, please consult with Lisa.
Whether you choose to work on your relationship in The Art & SCIENCE of Love (ASL): Weekend Retreat and Couples Workshops, or in Couples or Marriage Counseling with a Gottman Certified Therapist, you are in good hands. In both venues you will be actively working with your partner in structured exercises designed to build your connection and increase understanding and empathy for one another even when you disagree. The workshop is a very powerful change agent for most couples. Some couples may need more assistance than can be provided in a workshop setting. If you have any questions about the best fit for your particular situation, feel free to call Lisa to discuss your options.
Couples are not asked to share any private information in the ASL Couples Retreat and Workshops. Lisa will lecture, show films and demonstrate with humorous role plays the right and wrong way to go about a particular exercise. Couples will then practice the communication exercise on their own. If they need help they may raise their hand and Lisa or another Certified Gottman Therapist will assist them.
A Certified Gottman Therapist is a therapist who has completed an extensive certification program administered by The Gottman Institute. Lisa is a marriage and family counselor trained directly by Drs. John and Julie Gottman. There are five levels for professionals to complete for certification. Please see www.Gottman.com for more information from the Gottman Institute.
Certified Gottman Workshop Leaders are Certified Gottman Therapists who have received additional training at the Gottman Institute to prepare them to present the trademarked Weekend Workshop for Couples created by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, The Art & SCIENCE of Love. Lisa has completed this additional training.
It is not necessary for you to do any preparation, however some couples find it helpful to read the book “The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work” by Dr. John Gottman. This book is widely available at bookstores, or online at Gottman.com.
Due to the nature of the ASL workshop and focused attention couples will be giving to their couple communication exercises we ask that you do not bring your baby to the workshop.
This comprehensive, science-based couple and marriage workshop & retreat is appropriate for premarital, engaged, married, cohabiting, gay, straight, happy or struggling couples. All of the ideas presented to you will be grounded in sound and extensive research brought to you from the Gottman Relationship Institute. You will learn what actually works in relationships that are happy and stable.
~ No public discussion or disclosure is involved. All work is done as a couple. ~
The Art & SCIENCE of Love workshop was designed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman. It is based on Dr. John Gottman’s leading edge research involving over 3,000 couples spanning the past three decades. Gottman is the author of 190 published academic articles, and author or co-author of over 40 books including the best sellers “The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work”, “What Makes Love Last”, and the newest book, "Fight Right"; as well as “The Relationship Cure”, “Why Marriages Succeed or Fail”, and “Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child”, among many others.
Your presenter is Lisa Lund, MFT, a Master Certified Gottman Therapist, lecturer & trainer, and workshop leader directly trained by Drs. John and Julie Gottman. Lisa is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 25 years of counseling experience treating couples.
The Art and Science of Love Workshop is designed to strengthen your relationship through engaging presentations and skill building exercises that are grounded in research. Lisa will share many humorous stories, film clips and role plays. During the first day, you will learn how to build and maintain fondness, admiration, and closeness in your relationship or marriage. On the second day, you will work on conflict management while learning new and important communication skills. All of the exercises are designed to address your real-life challenges and you will work only with your partner. During the exercises, Lisa and Bob remain available to consult with those couples who desire help. There is no group work or public disclosure. This is an experiential, psycho-educational workshop for couples, and is not therapy. The workshop is a terrific weekend couple getaway. At the end of the workshop you will leave with a greater understanding of your relationship and the skills to repair or enhance it.
Research shows that on average, couples wait six years from the first signs of problems before they seek help. The workshop is designed to strengthen your marriage and/or relationship. If you have a strong relationship, this workshop will provide you with insights and tools to make it a great one. If your relationship is distressed, this workshop will provide a road map for repair. If you are dealing with physical abuse, this workshop may not be appropriate. In these cases, please consult with Lisa.
Whether you choose to work on your relationship in The Art & SCIENCE of Love (ASL): Weekend Retreat and Couples Workshops, or in Couples or Marriage Counseling with a Gottman Certified Therapist, you are in good hands. In both venues you will be actively working with your partner in structured exercises designed to build your connection and increase understanding and empathy for one another even when you disagree. The workshop is a very powerful change agent for most couples. Some couples may need more assistance than can be provided in a workshop setting. If you have any questions about the best fit for your particular situation, feel free to call Lisa to discuss your options.
Couples are not asked to share any private information in the ASL Couples Retreat and Workshops. Lisa and Bob will lecture, show films and demonstrate with humorous role plays the right and wrong way to go about a particular exercise. To maintain privacy, each couple will then be assigned to their own virtual break-out room to practice the exercise. Bob and Lisa, as well as other Gottman-trained "Rover" therapists, will be on hand for those couples requesting help by joining them in their room.
A Certified Gottman Therapist is a therapist who has completed an extensive certification program administered by The Gottman Institute. Lisa and Bob are marriage and family counselors trained directly by Drs. John and Julie Gottman. There are five levels for professionals to complete for certification. Please see www.Gottman.com for more information from the Gottman Institute.
Certified Gottman Workshop Leaders are Certified Gottman Therapists who have received additional training at the Gottman Institute to prepare them to present the trademarked Weekend Workshop for Couples created by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, The Art & SCIENCE of Love. Both Lisa and Bob have completed this additional training.
It is not necessary for you to do any preparation, however some couples find it helpful to read the book “The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work” by Dr. John Gottman. This book is widely available at bookstores, or online at Gottman.com.
Our Workshops feature live lectures with presenter-led role plays, interactive audience Q&A, and private break-out exercises.
A Gottman Certified Therapist will be available to assist couples through the communication exercises as needed.
The workshops often sell out, please sign-up early to save your seats.
Please scroll down below for additional workshop related information.
Save $50! Register 3 weeks early for the couples workshop.
Tuition is for both days of the workshop, including workshop materials, coffee, tea and water. Please note, price does not include hotel accommodations or lunch. There are numerous venues for lunch walking distance from the hotel.
Please advise us in your Pre-Workshop Interview. Your discount will be credited back to your payment card.
Standard procedure is to conduct brief telephone interview of all attendees before workshop. This helps to insure that attendees derive the maximum benefit from the workshop.
Each couple receives:
"The Art & SCIENCE of Love" Boxed-Set.
Includes two workshop Printed Manuals,
Communication Card Decks, and Exercise Booklets.
Special needs? Please let us know how we can serve you.
Join us with your significant other to learn the latest research on couples and to experience the Gottman Method first hand. Professional discount may apply. Please advise us in your Pre-Workshop Interview. Your discount will be credited back to your payment card.