A Couples Place presents

Live In-Person Events

Raleigh - Durham - Chapel Hill
in the North Carolina Triangle

The Art & SCIENCE of Love

Weekend Couples Workshops

Featuring Live Presentations, Instructor Role Plays,
and Private Couple Break-Outs

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Next Couples Workshops:

February 15th &16th, 2025

* Special Valentines Weekend Workshop

May 3rd & 4th, 2025

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Created by Drs. John and Julie Gottman
Presented by Master Gottman Therapist, Lisa Lund, MFT

The Art & SCIENCE of Love

Gottman Weekend Couples Workshop

This comprehensive, science-based couple and marriage workshop & retreat is appropriate for premarital, engaged, married, cohabiting, gay, straight, happy or struggling couples. All of the ideas presented to you will be grounded in sound and extensive research brought to you from the Gottman Relationship Institute. You will learn what actually works in relationships that are happy and stable.

~ No public discussion or disclosure is involved. All work is done as a couple. ~

A portrait of a senior white couple together at the beach.
A photo of an asian couple together cheek to cheek.
A photo of a young happy lesbian couple with their heads tilted towards each other smiling.
A photo of a senior white couple together cheek to cheek.
A photo of a couple just married with the groom kissing the bride on the temple.
A photo of a young black couple hugging each other.
A photo of a senior white couple together cheek to cheek.
A photo of a gay couple kneeling with each other along the shoreline.
A photo of a young couple laying opposite to eachother with their heads together on grass..
A couple staring lovingly towards each other.
A photo of a young white couple hugging each other at the beach.
Next LIVE Workshop: February 15th & 16th, 2025
* Special Valentine's Weekend Workshop

The Art & SCIENCE of Love workshop was designed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman. It is based on Dr. John Gottman’s leading edge research involving over 3,000 couples spanning the past three decades. Gottman is the author of 190 published academic articles, and best selling author or co-author of over 40 books including “The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work”, “What Makes Love Last”, “The Relationship Cure”, “Why Marriages Succeed or Fail”,  and the newest book, "Fight Right”.

Your presenter is Lisa Lund, MFT, a Master Certified Gottman Therapist, lecturer & trainer, and workshop leader directly trained by Drs. John and Julie Gottman.  Lisa is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 25 years of counseling experience treating couples.  

A graphic from the Art & SCIENCE of Love Gottman couples workshop presented by Lisa Lund, MFT.
You will learn how to...
  • Foster respect, affection and closeness
  • Keep conflict discussions calm
  • Build and share a deeper connection
  • Break through and resolve conflict gridlock
  • Strengthen and maintain success in your relationship
What to expect...

The Art and Science of Love Workshop is designed to strengthen your relationship through engaging presentations and skill building exercises that are grounded in research.  Lisa will share many humorous stories, film clips and role plays.  During the first day, you will learn how to build and maintain fondness, admiration, and closeness in your relationship or marriage.  On the second day, you will work on conflict management while learning new and important communication skills.  All of the exercises are designed to address your real-life challenges and you will work only with your partner.  During the exercises, the presenters remain available to consult with those couples who desire help.  There is no group work or public disclosure.  This is an experiential, psycho-educational workshop for couples, and is not therapy.  The workshop is a terrific weekend couple getaway. At the end of the workshop you will leave with a greater understanding of your relationship and the skills to repair or enhance it.

Who Should Attend...

Research shows that on average, couples wait six years from the first signs of problems before they seek help. The workshop is designed to strengthen your marriage and/or relationship. If you have a strong relationship, this workshop will provide you with insights and tools to make it a great one. If your relationship is distressed, this workshop will provide a road map for repair. If you are dealing with domestic violence, serious drug or alcohol addiction, or serious mental health problems this workshop may not be appropriate for you. In these cases, please consult with Lisa.

An animated GIF depicting that 94% of couples report positive results from the Art & SCIENCE of Love workshop presented by Lisa Lund.
Workshop Topics
1. The Five Basic Questions:
  • How is your marriage / relationship doing?
  • What makes relationships change, for better or for worse?
  • If your relationship is in trouble, how can you turn it around?
  • If your relationship is doing well, how can you ensure that it will continue to grow?
  • As your relationship improves, how can you make changes last?
2. Assessing Your Relationship:
  • Learn to recognize the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse and what to do if they are attacking your relationship / marriage
  • Identify your relationship's specific strengths and how to build on these
  • Learn about the effects of physiological flooding and how it may impede conflict resolution
  • Learn the small, easy steps that increase romance in your relationship
3. Building a "Sound Relationship House":
  • Learn how Love Maps provide a solid foundation for intimacy
  • Use the Fondness and Admiration System to renew respect and care for one another
  • Create an Emotional Bank Account that you can draw upon in times of stress
  • Develop your problem-solving skills and learn effective conflict resolution
  • Find out how you can make your dreams and aspirations come true for you, your partner, and your relationship
Lisa Lund with Drs. John and Julie Gottman
A photo of Gottman certified therapist Lisa Lund, MFT standing with Drs. John and Julie Gottman.
Frequently Asked Questions
How do the workshops compare to Couples or Marriage Counseling?
Will we need to share our private life or information with others?
What is a Certified Gottman Therapist?
What is a Gottman Certified Workshop Leader?
How should we prepare for The Art & SCIENCE of Love Couples Workshop?
Can we bring our infant to the workshop?
“The Workshop was a positive jolt to our relationship that we really needed... We
had tried couples counseling, but hadn’t got what we needed.”
“The best part of the workshop was the section on fondness and admiration. I feel those things for my wife, but don’t always tell her.”
“I appreciate the package and information. The space is great and the format of time away to discuss each exercise was beneficial....presented with humor to lighten up a weighty subject.”
“My partner and I were able to create a plan around a conflict we’ve repeatedly argued over for over 10 years!”
“Highlights were the Aftermath of a Fight exercise and finding the underlying dream in a gridlocked problem.”
“Working thru exercises - knowing that 1 to 1 coaching was
available - really
made a difference.”
“The whole experience has been rewarding, especially recognizing the things we are doing right already, and focusing on ways to make them lasting relationship tools.”
“Overall, this was a fantastic workshop from the perspective of both a clinician and a participant. We left feeling renewed and closer.”

The Art & SCIENCE of Love

Gottman Weekend Couples Workshop

This comprehensive, science-based couple and marriage workshop & retreat is appropriate for premarital, engaged, married, cohabiting, gay, straight, happy or struggling couples. All of the ideas presented to you will be grounded in sound and extensive research brought to you from the Gottman Relationship Institute. You will learn what actually works in relationships that are happy and stable.

~ No public discussion or disclosure is involved. All work is done as a couple. ~

A portrait of a senior white couple together at the beach.
A photo of an asian couple together cheek to cheek.
A photo of a young happy lesbian couple with their heads tilted towards each other smiling.
A photo of a senior white couple together cheek to cheek.
A photo of a couple just married with the groom kissing the bride on the temple.
A photo of a young black couple hugging each other.
A photo of a senior white couple together cheek to cheek.
A photo of a gay couple kneeling with each other along the shoreline.
A photo of a young couple laying opposite to eachother with their heads together on grass..
A couple staring lovingly towards each other.
A photo of a young white couple hugging each other at the beach.
Next LIVE Workshop: February 15th & 16th, 2025
* Special Valentine's Weekend Workshop

The Art & SCIENCE of Love workshop was designed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman. It is based on Dr. John Gottman’s leading edge research involving over 3,000 couples spanning the past three decades.  Gottman is the author of 190 published academic articles, and author or co-author of over 40 books including the best sellers “The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work”, “What Makes Love Last”, and the newest book, "Fight Right"; as well as “The Relationship Cure”, “Why Marriages Succeed or Fail”, and “Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child”, among many others.

“The Workshop was a positive jolt to our relationship that we really needed...
We had tried couples counseling, but hadn’t got what we needed.”

Your presenter is Lisa Lund, MFT, a Master Certified Gottman Therapist, lecturer & trainer, and workshop leader directly trained by Drs. John and Julie Gottman.  Lisa is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 25 years of counseling experience treating couples.  

A graphic from the Art & SCIENCE of Love Gottman couples workshop presented by Lisa Lund, MFT.
You will learn how to...
  • Foster respect, affection and closeness
  • Keep conflict discussions calm
  • Build and share a deeper connection
  • Break through and resolve conflict gridlock
  • Strengthen and maintain success in your relationship
What to expect...

The Art and Science of Love Workshop is designed to strengthen your relationship through engaging presentations and skill building exercises that are grounded in research.  Lisa will share many humorous stories, film clips and role plays.  During the first day, you will learn how to build and maintain fondness, admiration, and closeness in your relationship or marriage.  On the second day, you will work on conflict management while learning new and important communication skills.  All of the exercises are designed to address your real-life challenges and you will work only with your partner.  During the exercises, Lisa and Bob remain available to consult with those couples who desire help.  There is no group work or public disclosure.  This is an experiential, psycho-educational workshop for couples, and is not therapy.  The workshop is a terrific weekend couple getaway. At the end of the workshop you will leave with a greater understanding of your relationship and the skills to repair or enhance it.

“The best part of the workshop was the section on fondness and admiration.
I feel those things for my wife, but don’t always tell her.”
Who Should Attend...

Research shows that on average, couples wait six years from the first signs of problems before they seek help. The workshop is designed to strengthen your marriage and/or relationship. If you have a strong relationship, this workshop will provide you with insights and tools to make it a great one. If your relationship is distressed, this workshop will provide a road map for repair.  If you are dealing with physical abuse, this workshop may not be appropriate. In these cases, please consult with Lisa.

An animated GIF depicting that 94% of couples report positive results from the Art & SCIENCE of Love workshop presented by Lisa Lund.
“Overall, this was a fantastic workshop from the perspective of both a clinician and a participant. We left feeling renewed and closer.”
Workshop Topics
1. The Five Basic Questions:
  • How is your marriage / relationship doing?
  • What makes relationships change, for better or for worse?
  • If your relationship is in trouble, how can you turn it around?
  • If your relationship is doing well, how can you ensure that it will continue to grow?
  • As your relationship improves, how can you make changes last?
2. Assessing Your Relationship:
  • Learn to recognize the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse and what to do if they are attacking your relationship / marriage
  • Identify your relationship's specific strengths and how to build on these
  • Learn about the effects of physiological flooding and how it may impede conflict resolution
  • Learn the small, easy steps that increase romance in your relationship
3. Building a "Sound Relationship House":
  • Learn how Love Maps provide a solid foundation for intimacy
  • Use the Fondness and Admiration System to renew respect and care for one another
  • Create an Emotional Bank Account that you can draw upon in times of stress
  • Develop your problem-solving skills and learn effective conflict resolution
  • Find out how you can make your dreams and aspirations come true for you, your partner, and your relationship
Lisa Lund with Drs. John and Julie Gottman
A photo of Gottman certified therapist Lisa Lund, MFT standing with Drs. John and Julie Gottman.
“I appreciate the package and information. The space is great and the format of time away to discuss each exercise was beneficial... presented with humor to lighten up a weighty subject.”
Frequently Asked Questions
How do the workshops compare to
Couples or Marriage Counseling?
Will we need to share our private life
and/or information with others?
What is a
Certified Gottman Therapist?
What is a Certified
Gottman Workshop Leader?
How should we prepare for The Art
& SCIENCE of Love Couples Workshop?
“The Workshop was a positive jolt to our relationship that we really needed... We
had tried couples counseling, but hadn’t got what we needed.”
“The best part of the workshop was the section on fondness and admiration. I feel those things for my wife, but don’t always tell her.”
“I appreciate the package and information. The space is great and the format of time away to discuss each exercise was beneficial....presented with humor to lighten up a weighty subject.”
“My partner and I were able to create a plan around a conflict we’ve repeatedly argued over for over 10 years!”
“Highlights were the Aftermath of a Fight exercise and finding the underlying dream in a gridlocked problem.”
“Working thru exercises - knowing that 1 to 1 coaching was
available - really
made a difference.”
“The whole experience has been rewarding, especially recognizing the things we are doing right already, and focusing on ways to make them lasting relationship tools.”
"A positive highlight was being able to talk about conflict without fighting - it was scary and made me anxious - but it was really helpful!"
“Overall, this was a fantastic workshop from the perspective of both a clinician and a participant. We left feeling renewed and closer.”
Workshop Registration - Limited Seating

Our Workshops feature live lectures with presenter-led role plays, interactive audience Q&A, and private break-out exercises.

A Gottman Certified Therapist will be available to assist couples through the communication exercises as needed.

The workshops often sell out, please sign-up early to save your seats.

Please scroll down below for additional workshop related information.

Seating Limited
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Workshop Tuition
Early Registration - $ 799 per Couple

Save $50! Register 3 weeks early for the couples workshop.

Standard Registration - $ 849 per Couple

Tuition is for both days of the workshop, including workshop materials, coffee, tea and water. Please note, price does not include hotel accommodations or lunch.  There are numerous venues for lunch walking distance from the hotel.

$50 Discount for Psychotherapists, Clergy, and Active Armed Services.

Please advise us in your Pre-Workshop Interview. Your discount will be credited back to your payment card.

Pre-Workshop Interview:

Standard procedure is to conduct brief telephone interview of all attendees before workshop. This helps to insure that attendees derive the maximum benefit from the workshop.

Workshop Dates:
February 15th & 16th, 2025
May 3rd & 4th, 2025
*Additional dates coming soon...

Each couple receives:
"The Art & SCIENCE of Love" Boxed-Set.
Includes two workshop Printed Manuals,
Communication Card Decks, and Exercise Booklets.

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Location:
A photo of the Hyatt House Hotel where the couples workshop is presented by Lisa Lund, MFT.
Hyatt House ~ Raleigh, North Hills
160 Park at North Hills Street
Raleigh, NC 27609
Workshop Times:
8:30am to 5pm, Saturday & Sunday
Registration Check-in: 8:00 - 8:20am
ADA Accommodations:

Special needs? Please let us know how we can serve you.

Note to Clinicians and Clergy...

Join us with your significant other to learn the latest research on couples and to experience the Gottman Method first hand. Professional discount may apply. Please advise us in your Pre-Workshop Interview. Your discount will be credited back to your payment card.

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